Later in the afternoon, I went over to Em's house to have our first unofficial "comp study" that's going to take place each week. We're working on an alternative title for it and right now we've got S&E Party Time but like I said, it's a work in progress and we have a ways yet to go. haha! Anyway we read an article from this month's Ensign called "No Corrupt Communication". It was an excellent article about eliminating sarcasm and we really enjoyed pulling out our favorite parts and talking about them. The following is one of my favorite sections:
President Gordon B. Hinckley (1910–2008) identified the damage that sarcasm inflicts on our relationships:
“Everywhere is heard the snide remark, the sarcastic gibe, the cutting down of associates. Sadly, these are too often the essence of our conversation. In our homes, wives weep and children finally give up under the barrage of criticism leveled by husbands and fathers. Criticism is the forerunner of divorce, the cultivator of rebellion, sometimes a catalyst that leads to failure.
“I am asking that we look a little deeper for the good, that we still voices of insult and sarcasm, that we more generously compliment virtue and effort.”
The Apostle Paul taught similar principles to the Ephesians: “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers” (Ephesians 4:29). According to this scripture, all our communication should uplift others and strengthen them in the Lord.
The full article can be found here. I am grateful for things like this that motivate me to become a better person.
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